What should you do when you call a girl but she is always quiet and doesn't talk to you?

Shy on the Phone

Here are opinions and advice:

• It depends on her age and the person. It could mean she likes your or it could mean she doesn't. Does she have your phone number? If so, does she ever call you? If she doesn't have your number, give it to her and wait for her to call. If she doesn't she probably doesn't like you. If she calls, she probably does. The best way to find out if she likes you or not, is to ask her on a date. Or just ask her if she likes you.

• This doesn't necessarily mean that the girl is not interested in you. Perhaps this is just her personality: more of a quiet person who doesn't talk very much. You shouldn't hold this against her. Some people are better listeners than talkers, and that is just the way they get to know the other person. Anyway isn't it true that people usually appreciates knowing that someone is actually interested in them enough to listen to what they have to say? If you are the more talkative one, then perhaps you should initiate topics and questions during the conversation. Eventually she may start to open up more to you to.

• You have to find something. A common ground. Something that she finds interesting. Keep talking and sooner or later a light will go off in her head and you won't be able to shut her up.

• If the girl does not talk to you maybe she is just shy. Some girls get very shy around guys they like and they just can't find the right words to say. My advice is to show this girl how much you care about her and don't give up on her.

• Next time you talk with her ask her. Many times people try to guess or wonder about what a person is thinking instead of just asking. She can only tell you what you want to know. but be careful it may not be what you want to hear.

• I know for myself I am not real talkative on the phone. I hate talking on the phone. I'm much better in person. So, for me it doesn't mean I don't like someone it's just I'm not a phone person. Ask her what do you have to lose.

• This is coming from a girl whom is like that, myself. I get quiet and shy to a certain guy because I like him and I get speechless and forget what I have wanted to say and ask the guy I like and not because I am not disinterested in him, which I am interested in him, but, because I am the kind of girl that gets very overwhelmed in aww..... So, don't ever give up on this kind of girl because you'll never know whom your giving up on! Because, a girl whom is like that could be what you are looking for!!!!! So, don't ever give up on her!! Good Luck!!

• I'm like that sometimes so well me. I'm quiet because I can't find the right words to say to a guy that I like. Don't know if that's it, but she might just like you.

• I do that around guys I like. She might just be shy around people, shy around you, she might not be that talkative when on the phone,or she might in fact like you. I am like that around most guys in fact. I like a guy who was in my class last year but I still liked him then. I used to talk to him ALOT when we weren't at our base school and at a different school. Later on I got a little quiet around him. (REMEMBER:THAT IS LAST YEAR) Remember this doesn't mean she is not interested in you.

• i do that because something might be bothering me. most of the time its because i feel really sad and dont have the energy to talk. so if she seems kinda down and sad ask her if somethings wrong and dont get mad if she tells you something important like she feels sad all the time just try to cheer her up.

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