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I like this girl and we are friends she is beautiful and has the greatest personality but im not the most attractive guy should i ask her out anyway?In: Relationships [Recategorize] |
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hot guys are just a nice thing for us to look at thats all, but a boyfriend with a nice body and is hot.... its just a pluse!! So stand up and take a risk.
Hell yeah!!! Go for it. I'm not what you would call a looker either. I wind up with hot chicks, and people saying thats YOUR girlfriend? Luckily for us ugly chuds, women are not as shallow as us men( usually ) Shes already friends with you, so your personality cant be to terribly boring, just don't fall in the friend zone. Whats the worse that can happen? She says no and your back in square one, and its awkward for maybe a week, no big deal, do it!
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Yes.
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Just tell her, but still show it in your actions
It really just depends on the type of person you are. If you do little sexy random things that you think express your love often, then that might be enough. It's always good to hear the I love you every once in a while! Over doing it will definitaly make it seem that you just feel like you have to say it and are not doing it out of your heart. If you really do care for this person, then you should find some way to express it- or else you might loose him/her~
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I believe the answer depends on your definition of love. Is it a sudden, or not so sudden, strong physical attraction or is it affection based on admiration, common interests, benevolence as well as physical attraction. The kind you would like your parents to have (unless you're too young to realize your parents could be together because for these factors). This answer is based on the experiences of a 43 year marriage that started at age 19 ( the early start doesn't necessarily mean long term is not a possibility if the basis is correct. The short form answer is, if it really is love you should want to tell her and have actions that show you really care for her and not just physically.
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Just be careful.. she might take this as coming on too strong at this point. When I was 15, some 21 years ago I had a crush on a HS Senior whom made it clear if her boyfriend at the time made such a statement she'd insist on them having some "time apart." If anything, I'd suggest showing to the point where she says it first, then you have nothing to worry about! Good Luck.
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Women like to hear it so tell her as much as you can and also show her being kind and tender does not make you a softy. Sometimes I think both sexes don't say it enough, we wait until is too late and then try to make it up. it doesn't work that way. Tell her and show her and you will get great rewards back.
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If you can show it in your every day actions, you have serious issues if you can't say it verbally as well.
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I don't know what age you are, but just in case you are a teenager, I have some advice. I'm a girl, and I think we all tend to rationalize guys' behavior. It's important to show her you care, but it needs to be expressed verbally as well or else she'll be left guessing.
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What exactly are these actions that are suppose to send the message of love? Men and women are different in how they take things. For example, if she cleans your apartment for you do you think she loves you or do you need to hear her say it? Well, usually for women that is a "love action", but I don't think you take it that way, you probaly take it as "she's trying to change me." It's really simple, yes, yes, and yes, she needs you to say it!
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It depends, but honesty is always a good thing. Don't hold back, just tell her.
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I think as it was mentioned earlier, if you love someone and your everyday actions show her. Then you can tell her. Love is very important to show and the to hear.
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If you REALLY do love her, then what's the problem with telling her this?
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Even if your girlfriend can tell you love her by your actions and you haven't told her yet then you definitely should tell her. Girls need to be told those kind of things. We cant just go by the way you act! Tell her how you feel, the most important thing in a relationship is communication, if you can't talk to each other and tell each other how you feel then what's the point of being together?! TELL HER and I wish you the best of luck! ~Female---Georgia~
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This depends upon the person. What works for me is actions, not words. Words are just words. Actions speak louder than words.
But there may be another problem here, if you do love her but you cannot say it, you need to explore what's behind that. Are you not sure if you love her? Are you afraid of rejection? Is it a control issue? Find the root cause and go from there.
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"If you really love her must you tell her or is it enough that she sees it in your actions?"
In my case, I need to hear it, see it, feel it, know it and have many things purchsed by him for me as proof of it.
Best Wishes...
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Yes she needs to hear it. "say what you mean, mean what you say."
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If you really love her you would want to tell her that you LOVE her, you would want to shout it to the world, you wouldn't want to cage it in your heart.
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Actions say more than words. Although, she need to hear it, see it, and feel it. Let her know that she is loved by you her with words and actions
you might want to steer the conversation to dating or qualities you find admirable in people or some other such related issue first so you dont blindside her with it. If you cant tell at all how she will react tell her casually tell her how much you admire her or enjoy spending time with her, if she doesnt go straight to the "you're a great friend but" speech, ask her out. You need to be clear about your feelings but telling a friend you are in love with them sometimes doesnt go over as well as i think im falling for you or i'd like to be more than just friends. If she feels the same way, you'll get to the I love you's pretty soon. She may have never considered it and might have to think it over a bit before she comes around. And if she tells you clearly that she doesnt feel the same, telling her over and over again in word or deed will just put strain on the friendship.
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Definitely! As the saying goes, you miss 100% of the shots you don't take. So, you might as well give it a shot. :-)
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Of course! Take this chance and ask her, you want loose anything. If you are not sure, don't ask her first. You can get to know her if you share any classes with her at school or if you meet in the hallway start talking to her a bit and then more. When at last you are confident, you should give it a shot and try. It may be worth it and you may be surprised and happy if she says yes. Hope that this is going to be what she is going to say. Good luck
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i think u should it might be worth it in the long run. but when it gets deep into the relationship and u gotta meet the parents. meet them and dont shake like leaf.btw im a girl and i had a boyfriend who did that. in the end he wasnt worth it.just make sure u have everything in check before u ask her. girls like that. i hope this helps and i wish you the best!!
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I've had an past experiment with dating a friend, and it didn't work out as well as I thought it would've. If you really think that she'll fall for you then I wish you luck, but I would advise you to be careful and to also guard your heart.
First answer by anonymous. Last edit by Lizybabe. Contributor trust: 3 [recommend contributor]. Question popularity: 284 [recommend question]
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