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How does one deal with a husband who is still in contact with an ex-girlfriend who broke his heart if it is affecting his current marriage negatively?In: Relationships [Edit categories] |
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That's not fair to you. Give him an ultimatum. Tell him that it's either you or her - if he doesn't cut off contact, you leave. If he refuses this ultimatum, it's likely that he still loves the other woman and can't get over it. If that's the case, you wouldn't want to be with him anyway, I assume.
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Sadly, he didn't deal with his ex relationship before he got into you. There's a chance you were a rebound. One way or the other he's going to have to deal with how he is really feeling and you can't control that. You can only find out if he is really yours or not. You're going to have to give him time to himself which involves you being very realistic and strong. If you lose him, he wasn't yours and you would have eventually anyway. Love can be painful at times. So can life, but we have to be realistic and strong and not see things the way we want them to be but the way they are. Sometimes that flat out hurts and sucks.
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