How do you write a letter to your ex asking for reconciliation without sounding needy?

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I don't know your situation, but if he left you and there wasn't a good reason I would let him go. If not, then it's worth a try.

I'll be happy to get you started and you can adjust this letter as you feel is warranted:

Dear Jack

It has been quite some time since we have been apart and I've used this time to grow in my life and to find out what I am about and what my needs in life are. I know now that I miss and care about you and if you are willing to take the chance on me, I would like to get together for dinnerm talk things out and take it slow from there. I think our relationship is worth working at.

You can go on from there. Just say what is in your heart, but don't corner him. Leave the decision up to him.

Good luck Marcy

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I'd consider doing this in person, not in a letter. Ask him out for coffee, or create an excuse to get together. After an hour of conversation, you will have a pretty good idea if you want to see each other again.

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